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Is there a special someone in your life that you just cannot stop thinking about? Remembering the times you spent together? How he made you laugh and made you watch football? How she used to do that “thing”? Do you have a man or a girl but yet there’s this special person that you just cannot get out of your mind? You think about them every so often; are they doing ok and are they still fine as hell? You would do just about anything for them and still they don’t even know it. You might have even acted out a little bit because you felt you lost them. That’s cool too. How often do we hide our feelings for someone? How often do we not say anything? I’m thinking way too often! If your still in love with someone or you just have to handle your business to get over someone then use this guide to clear the air and get the stability you need because you know without knowing you’ll be miserable for a while!

1.) Call them or send them a message!

There’s Facebook, Myspace, email, texting…all sorts of ways to send a message. Tell your girl or boy to do it. Just do it! Say hello, “wassup”…whatever. Just say something. If they do not respond then that is probably a clear enough sign that they are not interested and the feeling is just not mutual! Either way, if they do or do not then feel free to move to the next step!

2.) Don’t stalk a dude but definitely make sure they see you!

Get out to where they are. Let them or their friends see you. Either way you’ll be talked about. Friends love to talk about friends’ past relationships and ‘how fine she was’. Trust and believe! Half of the time they’re living through your love life and you don’t even know it.

3.) Make the interaction and you better be looking better than ever!

When you finally do meet face to face then make sure you look great! Bring up a few good memories. Laugh, chat it out a bit. But nothing more! Make it quick and make it stick!

4.) Connect with them once more for the final touch!

After you see this person and have talked to them face to face then get at them one last time. Let them know it was nice to see their face and remember the past. Then go all in sweetie…tell them the deal but don’t spill all. Say something like, “Was definitely in love with you”, “You know I still think of you” or “What happened to us”. This is sure to spark the conversation and give you the answers to your dying need. Don’t pressure the person and come all out but let them know how you feel just a “lil” bit. Hopefully, this will revive the relationship. It won’t be the same as before but it will be enough for you to get a better idea of how they feel about you. Strengthen this by talking on the phone and sending messages until you get what you need from them. If they respond negatively, then baby you have what you need and perhaps you need to use this negativity to understand you need to keep it movin’. You got what you need and this should make you stronger in getting over them. But if they do respond…GREAT! It’s your move now! Good luck!

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