STDs are spreading rapidly. Many don't even know they have one whether they are having casual sex or have a single partner. Even though there are no laws that require one to tell their partner they have an STD, it is the right thing to do. It is not fair to let someone think nothing is wrong especially if one knew they had an STD from the beginning. Furthermore, many STDs can be treated and/or cured which will can help prevent spreading to the next person.

If you are troubled, embarrassed, and/or afraid of the repercussion of telling a person "I may have exposed you to an STD and you should get tested" face-to-face, over the phone or even through e-mail, then do it anonymously through inSPOT E-Cards. Of course it would be better to tell them personally but at least any kind of notification will have them thinking about going to get tested. You can send these e-cards anonymously and don't have to provide detailed medical information. The e-card will automatically provide links to what they need to know. Please do not brush off telling someone that they may have been exposed to an STD.

If you don't want to tell them personally consider inSPOT E-cards.

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According to the U.S. department of health and services, “the United States has the highest rate of STD’s in the industrialized world” and (as if that news weren’t alarming enough) “women suffer more frequent and more serious complications from STD’s than men.”

It is evident that what goes on below the belt is no longer a private matter but a public issue. Despite the access and availability of information and resources, many of us still don’t use condoms and if we use them, we may use them incorrectly. What’s worse is that using condoms correctly still can’t protect us against all STD’s.

That being said, why (especially as women) are we not smarter about our sexual health? Ask yourself these questions:

If you’re shy about purchasing condoms, did you know you could order them online? Or simply ask a friend? (but should you really be shy about protecting yourself?)
Do you know that all condoms have an expiration date?
Are you able to communicate honestly with your partner?
Can you recognize a possible STD on you or your partner?
Do you know of any free clinics in your area?

If you answered no to any of these questions then congratulations! You’re on your way to becoming a statistic. We all should be smarter about STD’s since some are permanent and can even kill you! You’re in charge of your sexual health and can choose to ignore any symptoms. However, spare me the uncomfortable feeling of having to ask “what’s that thing on your penis?” or why would you invite me into your bed, knowing that you could potentially ruin my life?

I guess the easiest question is “when was the last time that you got tested?”

Sent in by Annika White